60 pippa.io <![CDATA[Save Your Sanity]]> http://forrelationshiphelp.com/ en Content here is owned and copyrighted by Dr. Rhoberta Shaler. Rhoberta Shaler, PhD Get the insights you need to see, understand, and make good decisions and changes to manage the difficult, toxic–often disturbing–relationships with the people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®!


The Relationship Help Show: Move From Pain to Power - offers the insights, strategies, and skills you need to recognize what's really going on in the crazy-making relationships in your life. Relentlessly difficult people and relationships in can cause you to constantly second-guess yourself and question your sanity.


Get relationship advice directly from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. Learn from her expert guests. Each one has a very unique voice on solving relationship problems with particularly difficult people 






Are these relationship issues on your mind? This show has answers!

  • Are you with a Hijackal? Free ebook, How To Spot A Hijackal, Hijackals.com 
  • Want to know how your relationship can shift and you can grow closer?
  • Or, need to know if it's time to leave? 
  • Need insights into troubling behavior patterns?
  • Want to deepen your emotional intimacy?
  • Need to distance yourself from toxic people?
  • Can't communicate...or someone won't?
  • Trying to figure out what's your problem and what is theirs? 
  • Does every conversation quickly become an argument?
  • Have you been discarded by a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal?
  • Are you with one? Or, leaving one? 
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Get the insights you need to see, understand, and make good decisions and changes to manage the difficult, toxic–often disturbing–relationships with the people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®!


The Relationship Help Show: Move From Pain to Power - offers the insights, strategies, and skills you need to recognize what's really going on in the crazy-making relationships in your life. Relentlessly difficult people and relationships in can cause you to constantly second-guess yourself and question your sanity.


Get relationship advice directly from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. Learn from her expert guests. Each one has a very unique voice on solving relationship problems with particularly difficult people 






Are these relationship issues on your mind? This show has answers!

  • Are you with a Hijackal? Free ebook, How To Spot A Hijackal, Hijackals.com 
  • Want to know how your relationship can shift and you can grow closer?
  • Or, need to know if it's time to leave? 
  • Need insights into troubling behavior patterns?
  • Want to deepen your emotional intimacy?
  • Need to distance yourself from toxic people?
  • Can't communicate...or someone won't?
  • Trying to figure out what's your problem and what is theirs? 
  • Does every conversation quickly become an argument?
  • Have you been discarded by a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal?
  • Are you with one? Or, leaving one? 
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no Rhoberta Shaler, PhD info+5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8@pippa.io episodic https://assets.pippa.io/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1525226635526-c3dd96f3ff54c4044cbe477753fe8397.jpeg http://forrelationshiphelp.com/ <![CDATA[Save Your Sanity]]> https://feed.pippa.io/public/shows/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist <![CDATA[12 Signs You Are in a Love/Hate Relationship And Need Help]]> Sat, 19 May 2018 18:36:12 GMT 15:53 5b00687abeb378261e0365df no full 2 2 SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®

with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor


There is something wrong, something off, in your relationship. You can feel it, and you may not be quite able to put words to it, to describe it to yourself even. Yet, you know it's not right!


Good start! Go with your gut!


Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic, disturbing--and often dangerous--people, have "tells." Those are the signs that you need to see as early as possible...even if that happens after you've been with them for ten years. Or, if you were born to them and only see it all now!


In today's episode, I'll help you see how what you thought were the great traits of the person, are NOT what's real about them. Sad, right? You fell in love with Prince or Princess Charming, and now you've got the Prince or Princess of Darkness. So disappointing!


If you're like most people whom Hijackals target, though, you'll do your very best to make excuses for their bad behavior, to rationalize and justify it. You'll dance as fast as you can to do the best you can, and yet, it will never be good enough. When you're with a Hijackal, everything--and I mean everything--will be your fault. Familiar?


These twelve signs are explained in today's podcast. (There are more, and I'll save them for further discussion in other episodes.)


See these twelve signs. Think about these twelve signs. How many are present in your relationship with the Hijackal, whether that's your partner, ex, mother, father, friend, co-worker?


Notice what you are feeling. Ask yourself these questions after you listen:


  • What makes me want to believe what they say?
  • Why do I not trust my gut, my intuition?
  • Do I ever really get a straight answer from the Hijackal?
  • Am I always backing down or apologizing?
  • Do I ever feel safe in my relationship with them?
  • Am I always feeling discounted, blamed, or worse, degraded?
  • Do they care what I think or how I feel?
  • Why do I think it's my job to please them?


These answers will lead you to a more healthy, balanced place now that you've heard the twelve signs in today's podcast.


You can make it stop. Let's talk soon. I can help. Schedule a free consultation HERE.


I hope this empowers you to make positive changes.


Talk soon.

Rhoberta


Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,

The Relationship Help Doctor

ForRelationshipHelp.com


YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp


Join my Closed Facebook group HERE to ask your questions, get validation and support.

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SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®

with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor


There is something wrong, something off, in your relationship. You can feel it, and you may not be quite able to put words to it, to describe it to yourself even. Yet, you know it's not right!


Good start! Go with your gut!


Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic, disturbing--and often dangerous--people, have "tells." Those are the signs that you need to see as early as possible...even if that happens after you've been with them for ten years. Or, if you were born to them and only see it all now!


In today's episode, I'll help you see how what you thought were the great traits of the person, are NOT what's real about them. Sad, right? You fell in love with Prince or Princess Charming, and now you've got the Prince or Princess of Darkness. So disappointing!


If you're like most people whom Hijackals target, though, you'll do your very best to make excuses for their bad behavior, to rationalize and justify it. You'll dance as fast as you can to do the best you can, and yet, it will never be good enough. When you're with a Hijackal, everything--and I mean everything--will be your fault. Familiar?


These twelve signs are explained in today's podcast. (There are more, and I'll save them for further discussion in other episodes.)


See these twelve signs. Think about these twelve signs. How many are present in your relationship with the Hijackal, whether that's your partner, ex, mother, father, friend, co-worker?


Notice what you are feeling. Ask yourself these questions after you listen:


  • What makes me want to believe what they say?
  • Why do I not trust my gut, my intuition?
  • Do I ever really get a straight answer from the Hijackal?
  • Am I always backing down or apologizing?
  • Do I ever feel safe in my relationship with them?
  • Am I always feeling discounted, blamed, or worse, degraded?
  • Do they care what I think or how I feel?
  • Why do I think it's my job to please them?


These answers will lead you to a more healthy, balanced place now that you've heard the twelve signs in today's podcast.


You can make it stop. Let's talk soon. I can help. Schedule a free consultation HERE.


I hope this empowers you to make positive changes.


Talk soon.

Rhoberta


Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,

The Relationship Help Doctor

ForRelationshipHelp.com


YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp


Join my Closed Facebook group HERE to ask your questions, get validation and support.

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<![CDATA[6 Subtle Signs You're Being Manipulated and How To Stop It]]> Sun, 13 May 2018 04:46:08 GMT 17:31 5af7c34f73a893c525f84adb no full 2 1 SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®

with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor


Don't you just hate it when you feel manipulated? That's what happens far too often when you have a Hijackal in your life. And, you hope for better, but nothing really seems to change.


Today, I'm talking about six subtle signs to watch for, signs that you are being manipulated. They're tricky to spot because...well...you're not a Hijackal! You don't think that way. So, they are important to know about.


People who MUST manipulate do it because that's the only way they know to survive. Unfortunately, you are expected to accept it, settle for it, and allow it.


In today's episode, I hope you'll see that you have the right--and the responsibility--to step up and speak up. You know, though, that that often leads to arguments, threats, and, far too often--the silent treatment. So, do the work I'm talking about in this episode first, within yourself.


See these six signs. Then, notice what you can do to make it stop. These are things for you to change within yourself, not creating change in the Hijackal. That doesn't often happen. So, do these things to SAVE YOUR SANITY!


  1. Stop wanting their approval.
  2. Stop being addicted to their drama.
  3. Stop living up to their expectations
  4. Stop letting your boundaries slip.


I hope this empowers you to make positive changes.


Talk soon.

Rhoberta

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SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®

with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor


Don't you just hate it when you feel manipulated? That's what happens far too often when you have a Hijackal in your life. And, you hope for better, but nothing really seems to change.


Today, I'm talking about six subtle signs to watch for, signs that you are being manipulated. They're tricky to spot because...well...you're not a Hijackal! You don't think that way. So, they are important to know about.


People who MUST manipulate do it because that's the only way they know to survive. Unfortunately, you are expected to accept it, settle for it, and allow it.


In today's episode, I hope you'll see that you have the right--and the responsibility--to step up and speak up. You know, though, that that often leads to arguments, threats, and, far too often--the silent treatment. So, do the work I'm talking about in this episode first, within yourself.


See these six signs. Then, notice what you can do to make it stop. These are things for you to change within yourself, not creating change in the Hijackal. That doesn't often happen. So, do these things to SAVE YOUR SANITY!


  1. Stop wanting their approval.
  2. Stop being addicted to their drama.
  3. Stop living up to their expectations
  4. Stop letting your boundaries slip.


I hope this empowers you to make positive changes.


Talk soon.

Rhoberta

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<![CDATA[Dating Red Flags to Watch For]]> Fri, 30 Mar 2018 15:04:22 GMT 9:03 no full <![CDATA[Raised by a Hijackal...]]> Tue, 27 Mar 2018 13:00:00 GMT 10:52 5aeac0f5840b09bc32989915 no full 3 371 <![CDATA[Divorcing a Hijackal® Tips]]> Fri, 23 Mar 2018 16:50:53 GMT 10:03 no full <![CDATA[Kids & Hijackal® Parents]]> Fri, 23 Mar 2018 16:47:12 GMT 10:52 no full <![CDATA[Q & A Should I take my Hijackal partner back again?]]> Wed, 21 Mar 2018 01:00:00 GMT 5:42 5aeac0c3066512202d2ea31d no full 3 361 <![CDATA[What is Passive-Aggressive Behavior, Really?]]> Wed, 14 Mar 2018 01:00:00 GMT 6:45 5aeac051840b09bc32989914 no full 3 351 <![CDATA[How to Stop Second-Guessing Yourself]]> Wed, 14 Mar 2018 01:00:00 GMT 8:00 5aeac074066512202d2ea31c no full 3 352 <![CDATA[Finding Clarity in the Midst of Hijackal® Chaos]]> Sun, 11 Mar 2018 19:19:33 GMT 11:47 no <![CDATA[Dr. Shaler How Can I Learn to Trust ? Part 2]]> Wed, 07 Mar 2018 02:00:00 GMT 8:01 5aeabf65066512202d2ea31b no full 3 341 <![CDATA[Divorcing a Hijackal® Tips]]> Mon, 05 Mar 2018 18:20:52 GMT 9:54 no full <![CDATA[Q&A How to reduce the conflict and craziness]]> Wed, 28 Feb 2018 02:00:00 GMT 8:02 5aeabeba066512202d2ea31a no full <![CDATA[How Can I Learn to Trust? - Part 1]]> Tue, 27 Feb 2018 14:00:00 GMT 4:56 5aeabf0d0f406bec7378320a no full 3 332 <![CDATA[Q&A I've ended my relationship, now what?]]> Wed, 21 Feb 2018 02:00:00 GMT 9:59 5aeabe5a066512202d2ea319 no full <![CDATA[Propinquity ]]> Wed, 07 Feb 2018 02:00:00 GMT 10:41 5aeabda2f2fb72ce3c9b21e7 no full 3 301 <![CDATA[Why are I afraid of my husband's anger, walking on eggshells still ]]> Wed, 07 Feb 2018 02:00:00 GMT 11:12 5aeabdde840b09bc32989913 no full <![CDATA[How To Handle Bullies At Work]]> Wed, 31 Jan 2018 02:00:00 GMT 12:17 5aeabc9d840b09bc32989911 no full 3 291 <![CDATA[When work becomes a place you want to avoid]]> Wed, 31 Jan 2018 02:00:00 GMT 11:21 5aeabd4a840b09bc32989912 no full <![CDATA[5 Ways to Recognize Passive-Aggressive Behavior ]]> Wed, 17 Jan 2018 02:15:00 GMT 10:48 5ae8a6b6840b09bc329898ba no full 3 271 Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


Passive-aggressive behavior is frustrating, infuriating, and frankly...unfair! And, it's sneaky! In fact, so sneaky that you're often caught up in thinking that it actually makes some sense...at first, or for a while. Then, it dawns on you: Something's not right with this but I can't quite put my finger on it.


So, today, Dr. Shaler offers you five ways that passive-aggressive behavior shows up. You can then recognize it more easily. BUT, it's never very helpful to tell another person that their behavior is passive-aggressive. It's highly unlikely to get you anywhere good. Learn why.


Listen to this short podcast and learn how to listen for passive-aggressive stuff coming at you, and well as from you. It can be tricky!


Oh, Dr. Shaler has also written two books to give you even more insights, strategies, and skills:


Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game


The Hijackal Trap: The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression


Available at Amazon along with her other books.


TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE CHECKLIST HERE! Find out what's up for sure.

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Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


Passive-aggressive behavior is frustrating, infuriating, and frankly...unfair! And, it's sneaky! In fact, so sneaky that you're often caught up in thinking that it actually makes some sense...at first, or for a while. Then, it dawns on you: Something's not right with this but I can't quite put my finger on it.


So, today, Dr. Shaler offers you five ways that passive-aggressive behavior shows up. You can then recognize it more easily. BUT, it's never very helpful to tell another person that their behavior is passive-aggressive. It's highly unlikely to get you anywhere good. Learn why.


Listen to this short podcast and learn how to listen for passive-aggressive stuff coming at you, and well as from you. It can be tricky!


Oh, Dr. Shaler has also written two books to give you even more insights, strategies, and skills:


Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game


The Hijackal Trap: The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression


Available at Amazon along with her other books.


TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE CHECKLIST HERE! Find out what's up for sure.

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<![CDATA[Drama: Who needs it??]]> Tue, 16 Jan 2018 23:07:01 GMT 7:15 no full <![CDATA[Adult Hijackal Child Blaming & Shunning ]]> Tue, 16 Jan 2018 08:36:00 GMT 15:53 5aeabc500f406bec73783209 no full 3 272 <![CDATA[Verbal Abuse: More common than you think]]> Sun, 14 Jan 2018 21:41:12 GMT 9:58 no full <![CDATA[Are You In A Relationship That is Comfortably Uncomfortable?]]> Wed, 10 Jan 2018 02:15:00 GMT 9:40 5ae564876cc266e9455967aa no full 3 262 Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


Is your relationship bringing you love, safety, trust, respect, and emotional intimacy? Or, has it become one that goes along all right as long as you both walk on eggshells? Is it somewhere in the middle?


What's going on? It could be that one or both of you have been set up to settle for a "comfortably uncomfortable" relationship. You need to think about this. Settling is not the best descriptor for a satisfying relationship.


Dr. Shaler gives you insights into why you may not yet be having the relationship you most want, together. And, gives steps you can take to move in a better direction.


TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE RELATIONSHIP CHECKLIST HERE.

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Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


Is your relationship bringing you love, safety, trust, respect, and emotional intimacy? Or, has it become one that goes along all right as long as you both walk on eggshells? Is it somewhere in the middle?


What's going on? It could be that one or both of you have been set up to settle for a "comfortably uncomfortable" relationship. You need to think about this. Settling is not the best descriptor for a satisfying relationship.


Dr. Shaler gives you insights into why you may not yet be having the relationship you most want, together. And, gives steps you can take to move in a better direction.


TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE RELATIONSHIP CHECKLIST HERE.

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<![CDATA[Q&A One day is good. The next is a nightmare. ]]> Wed, 10 Jan 2018 02:00:00 GMT 10:03 5ae5645ecd7788d4792db679 no full 3 261 Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


When you are in a difficult relationship, you can certainly have more ups and downs than are comfortable. Those roller coasters can take so much energy that you're exhausted.


Dr. Shaler answers a reader's question about a roller coaster relationship. Good relationship advice.


If you have a question that you would like her to answer on air for you, you are welcome to submit it using THIS LINK.


Enjoy Dr. Shaler's YouTube channel: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

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Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


When you are in a difficult relationship, you can certainly have more ups and downs than are comfortable. Those roller coasters can take so much energy that you're exhausted.


Dr. Shaler answers a reader's question about a roller coaster relationship. Good relationship advice.


If you have a question that you would like her to answer on air for you, you are welcome to submit it using THIS LINK.


Enjoy Dr. Shaler's YouTube channel: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

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<![CDATA["It Happened To Me" - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler's story]]> Wed, 03 Jan 2018 02:15:00 GMT 8:54 5ae563fd928bf5cf7926bc48 no full 3 252 Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


"It Happened To Me" is a feature of the Save Your Sanity podcast. Guests tell their real life stories of life with Hijackals. Whether they loved on, lived with one, left one, or were raised by one, you'll relate to their experiences, and hear how they found ways to move positively forward.


Today, it's Dr. Shaler's own story.


Would you like to come on air and tell your "It Happened To Me" story? I'd love to have you as my guest. Use this guest form: ForRelationshipHelp.com/guests

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Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


"It Happened To Me" is a feature of the Save Your Sanity podcast. Guests tell their real life stories of life with Hijackals. Whether they loved on, lived with one, left one, or were raised by one, you'll relate to their experiences, and hear how they found ways to move positively forward.


Today, it's Dr. Shaler's own story.


Would you like to come on air and tell your "It Happened To Me" story? I'd love to have you as my guest. Use this guest form: ForRelationshipHelp.com/guests

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<![CDATA[Unresolved Conflict is Organizational Bloodletting]]> Wed, 03 Jan 2018 02:00:00 GMT 9:15 5ae56337928bf5cf7926bc47 no full 3 251 Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


Have you ever wanted to stay home from work to avoid someone, or to not have to deal with conflicts? You are not alone. Stress in the workplace caused by unresolved conflicts takes a large toll on everyone. It's exhausting.


Dr. Shaler discusses conflict in the workplace, and why it is essential to address it. Of course, having the right communication and conflict management strategies is important. That's why training is valuable. Too many businesses and companies could do a better job of offering this kind of help to their people.


What happens when conflict continues? That's the subject of today's podcast...and what happens when it's not addressed.


Want skills and strategies right away?

Buy your copy of Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work now from Amazon HERE

Valuable chapters on communication, conflict, negotiation, anger management, and more.

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Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®

from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor


Have you ever wanted to stay home from work to avoid someone, or to not have to deal with conflicts? You are not alone. Stress in the workplace caused by unresolved conflicts takes a large toll on everyone. It's exhausting.


Dr. Shaler discusses conflict in the workplace, and why it is essential to address it. Of course, having the right communication and conflict management strategies is important. That's why training is valuable. Too many businesses and companies could do a better job of offering this kind of help to their people.


What happens when conflict continues? That's the subject of today's podcast...and what happens when it's not addressed.


Want skills and strategies right away?

Buy your copy of Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work now from Amazon HERE

Valuable chapters on communication, conflict, negotiation, anger management, and more.

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<![CDATA[Boundaries. Got any?]]> Sun, 31 Dec 2017 02:39:34 GMT 6:57 no full <![CDATA[Recognize Verbal Abuse Now]]> Wed, 27 Dec 2017 02:45:00 GMT 12:58 5ae562ea928bf5cf7926bc46 no full 2 244 <![CDATA[Q&A My mother is always finding fault. ]]> Wed, 27 Dec 2017 02:30:00 GMT 9:11 5ae562c66cc266e9455967a9 no full 2 243 <![CDATA[12 Signs You Are In A Love-Hate Relationship]]> Wed, 27 Dec 2017 02:00:00 GMT 14:58 5ae5626bcd7788d4792db677 no full 2 241 <![CDATA[Love-Bombing - Not As Desireable As It Sounds]]> Wed, 27 Dec 2017 02:00:00 GMT 12:00 5ae5628fcd7788d4792db678 no full 2 242 <![CDATA[Spirituality, Hijackals & You]]> Wed, 27 Dec 2017 02:00:00 GMT 9:15 5ae4eb4bf3d04dea45b263b3 no full 2 231 <![CDATA[Should I Stay or Should I Go?]]> Thu, 21 Dec 2017 01:14:10 GMT 7:27 no full Big question. Knowing the answer takes a whole lot of thinking…unless, of course, there is physical or sexual abuse.


Then, there is only one answer: GO. Go to the police. Go to the court. Go to any lengths you need to protect yourself and your children. GO.


For most of you, though, going or staying is not black or white. It’s a whole lot of grey that travels from close to white some days, to too close to black others.

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Big question. Knowing the answer takes a whole lot of thinking…unless, of course, there is physical or sexual abuse.


Then, there is only one answer: GO. Go to the police. Go to the court. Go to any lengths you need to protect yourself and your children. GO.


For most of you, though, going or staying is not black or white. It’s a whole lot of grey that travels from close to white some days, to too close to black others.

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<![CDATA[Four Scary Reasons Unconditional Love is a Dangerous Myth]]> Wed, 20 Dec 2017 02:00:00 GMT 9:29 5ae56220cd7788d4792db676 no full 2 232 <![CDATA[What's up with Harvey W?]]> Wed, 20 Dec 2017 00:40:28 GMT 13:48 no full <![CDATA[Q&A - How do I know what to trust?]]> Mon, 18 Dec 2017 03:31:18 GMT 9:54 no full <![CDATA[DIFFICULT or Actually DANGEROUS?]]> Mon, 18 Dec 2017 02:24:31 GMT 12:03 no full <![CDATA[Are You Looking for a Fight?]]> Fri, 23 Dec 2016 21:26:48 GMT 7:14 no full Sometimes you're speaking up about something you believe in. Other times, you want to fight and use a topic to make it happen. Can you tell the difference?


Don't be "that person" who is always gunning for an argument, or purposefully trying to get a rise out of their partner. That is bad behavior and totally un-loving.

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Sometimes you're speaking up about something you believe in. Other times, you want to fight and use a topic to make it happen. Can you tell the difference?


Don't be "that person" who is always gunning for an argument, or purposefully trying to get a rise out of their partner. That is bad behavior and totally un-loving.

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<![CDATA[Recognize a high-conflict person in a relationship]]> Sat, 10 Dec 2016 21:07:15 GMT 7:26 no full <![CDATA[Interview with Patricia Evans of VerbalAbuse.com]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2016 20:08:29 GMT 39:03 no full <![CDATA[Why Do I Get So Angry?]]> Wed, 09 Nov 2016 13:01:41 GMT 2:21 no full <![CDATA[Toxic, Corrosive, Explosive Relationships]]> Tue, 08 Nov 2016 17:47:02 GMT 5:15 no full <![CDATA[How To Stop Blaming]]> Fri, 21 Oct 2016 12:18:20 GMT 7:56 no full <![CDATA[Q&A Listener questions answered by Rhoberta Shaler, PhD]]> Thu, 20 Oct 2016 12:00:00 GMT 25:00 no <![CDATA[Is name calling ever okay?]]> Tue, 18 Oct 2016 17:14:12 GMT 1:59 no full <![CDATA[Q&A - Will He Ever Commit? ]]> Fri, 14 Oct 2016 12:33:58 GMT 2:23 no full <![CDATA[QuickTips - My Boyfriend Dumped Me]]> Wed, 12 Oct 2016 18:57:31 GMT 2:21 no full <![CDATA[Expert interviews - Do Opposites Attract?]]> Mon, 10 Oct 2016 20:59:42 GMT 6:25 no full <![CDATA[Stop Anger And Aggression From Ending Your Relationship]]> Fri, 07 Oct 2016 20:43:46 GMT 4:06 no <![CDATA[How Hijackal Parents Mess With Kids' Lives]]> Fri, 23 Sep 2016 20:00:16 GMT 13:02 no <![CDATA[Trapped By A Hijackal?]]> Wed, 31 Aug 2016 21:32:05 GMT 34:45 no <![CDATA[Are You Headed For A Breakup?]]> Mon, 22 Aug 2016 22:37:11 GMT 4:47 no <![CDATA[My Partner Is Constantly Blaming Me For Everything]]> Tue, 09 Aug 2016 00:54:33 GMT 6:39 no